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Ann Coleman's avatar

Big Alcohol and Big Tobacco get them when they're young and hang on to them as long as possible. And college campuses serve as an incubator for drinking, vaping and weed, etc. My husband's drinking buddies were all just oversized frat boys who never stopped.

Then because of the mentality that "kids are just going to drink anyway", many parents make it available to them. I just wrote a piece about parents drinking with their teens (to teach them to "drink responsibly"). The thinking is "they do it in Europe and those teens don't have a drinking problem". Totally false.

It's so sad that alcohol is just accepted as part of life.

And I am so sorry about your brother. Mine was a substance abuser from adolescence until the day he died (addicted to meth) in his 50s. It did a number on me as a parent - all sorts of fear for my son. I don't know if you have kids, but be sure you deal with the emotions so you don't over-parent your kids. I caused all sorts of problems.

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Sarah Orman's avatar

This is so powerful and important. I'm sorry you had to write it, but I'm grateful that you did write it with your usual perseverance and clarity. You're so wise to connect addiction with capitalism. It makes me think about all the alcohol ads targeted to mothers - "mommy juice," etc. Definitely lots to think about here and to share with my teenage son!

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