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Going 'no contact:’ Not easy, but often necessary
It can be a much-needed mental reset, albeit an imperfect one.
Jun 20
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Don't wait for the glimmers to find you
My Saturday afternoon with kindred souls and shimmering birds is a reminder to make happy memories to offset the traumatic ones.
Jun 4
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May 2025
The hilarious TV show getting me through a (very) hard time: St. Denis Medical
This wholesome show is Reno 911 meets ER meets The Office and I'm obsessed.
May 23
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The hilarious TV show getting me through a (very) hard time: St. Denis Medical
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The healing power of a hiss. (Yes, hiss.)
Just like that, a gopher tortoise turned my day around.
May 16
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The healing power of a hiss. (Yes, hiss.)
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With a loved one's addiction, 'guilt offers the illusion of hope'
And why it's so hard to accept powerlessness.
May 6
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With a loved one's addiction, 'guilt offers the illusion of hope'
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April 2025
Turtle therapy and rage walks
Bilateral stimulation is even more effective when a reptile says hi.
Apr 23
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'What if we radically prioritized the sleep of new mothers?'
My story of clawing my way out of postpartum anxiety, with Human/Mother creator Katrina Donham
Apr 17
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'What if we radically prioritized the sleep of new mothers?'
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The White Lotus took this part of escapism way too far
Smartphones may be banned at the health spa, but the booze isn't?
Apr 7
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Insomnia & the lasting sting of medical gaslighting
Can't sleep? Watch out for dismissive doctors as you try to figure out what's really wrong.
Apr 4
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Insomnia & the lasting sting of medical gaslighting
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March 2025
Adulting with trauma: Career edition
When life suddenly goes off the rails, so can your job and work identity.
Mar 25
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The fuzzy oracle on my thumb
A serendipitous moment that helped me complete a challenging essay about addiction and compassion fatigue.
Mar 16
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Writing about addiction on an addictive platform (Substack)
I recently got caught up in the dopamine rush of going viral, and the come-down wasn't fun.
Mar 7
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Writing about addiction on an addictive platform (Substack)
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